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Men's Sober Living in San Marcos, North County San Diego | By the Sea Recovery

By the Sea Recovery is a structured men's sober living home in San Marcos, North County San Diego, founded in 2013 by Mark Gladden — a military veteran and person in long-term recovery. Aligned with NARR Level III supervised recovery residence standards, we provide the accountability, peer community, and daily structure men need to rebuild their lives after treatment.

Why Structure Matters

Recovery doesn't end when treatment does. Sober living gives men the time and structure to practice recovery in real life — with daily routine, peer accountability, and consistent expectations — before returning to fully independent living. Our home is owner-led, staff-supported, and built around real expectations, not minimal supervision.

Explore Our Program

What Is Sober Living? — complete guide
Who It's For — ideal candidates
Benefits of Sober Living — why structure works
Sober Living vs. Rehab — key differences
House Rules — what to expect
Daily Schedule — a day in the life
Cost & Pricing — clear, transparent pricing

Common Questions

What does sober living cost? We provide clear pricing based on room type, structure, and approved supports. See admissions and cost.
Can I work while living here? Yes. Employment or an active job search is required. Learn more about working in sober living.
How long do men typically stay? BTS requires a 90-day minimum commitment. Some residents stay longer based on progress, stability, and readiness for independence. Learn more.
Is this a treatment program? No. By the Sea Recovery is structured sober living, not a clinical treatment program or detox facility.

Call the BTS team to discuss fit, availability, and next steps: 760-216-2077. Or learn about admissions and cost.

By the Sea Recovery — Structured Men's Sober Living | San Marcos, CA (North County San Diego)

Phone: 760-216-2077 | Contact Us | Admissions & Cost

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